our granddaughter will be baptized in three weeks and I am wondering what my husband's and my role as paternal grandparents are before, during the baptism and at the reception at a local restaurant? What should we wear - should ask DIL/DS and if they need any help money-wise etc? Also what should be the gift that we as paternal grandparents give?
Maybe I should tell you that we did not baptize DS - DH and I are atheists. DIL is catholic - so is all of her family. Would any religious gift ( cross for the baby's crib etc ) hypocritical for us to give?
Thank you for your input on this subject.